There aren’t many medicines that even come close to delivering the benefits that laughter delivers. To start with, laughter makes us feel good, makes our burdens seem lighter and makes the difficult times seem less difficult. In addition, laughter strengthens the immune system, helps you heal more quickly, reduces food cravings, reduces stress, anxiety and anger while providing you with a better night’s sleep. And, the more we laugh, the more of these benefits we accrue. The problem is that we simply don’t laugh enough. Recent research shows that adults average only 17 laughs per day while a kindergartener laughs 300 times per day–and guess who is happier and healthier? The lesson here is that we all need to make it a point to laugh more each and every day. If we do, just like those kindergarteners, we’ll find ourselves happier and healthier.
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Ross Reck: Kind People Never have to Face Adversity Alone
One of the things I have observed over the years is that when a kind person gets sick or otherwise faces adversity, people quickly line up to help them. On the other hand, when an unkind or selfish person faces adversity, nobody cares which means they have to face their adversity alone. This can be sad as well as scary. What’s going on here is simple and straightforward. When you perform kind acts for people, you give people a reason to care and when they care, they want to help. I came across a quote on Facebook that went something like, “Which is more important, the journey or the destination?” The answer was, “The company.” When you’re a kind person, you attract lots of company which means you’ll never have to face adversity alone.
One Sentence Wisdom
- “Be good to people. You will be remembered more for your kindness than any level of success you could possibly attain.” — Mandy Hale
- “What wisdom can you find that is greater than kindness?” — Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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Happiness Causes Lots of Good Things to Happen in Your Life
We’ve all heard the phrase: “Don’t worry, be happy.” While it may sound trite, numerous medical and psychological studies show that this is sound advice to live by. These studies found that that happiness causes good things to happen across a number of fronts. For example, happy people have higher incomes, more fulfilling marriages, healthier lifestyles, better relationships, superior work performance, are more involved with their communities, have better health and live longer lives. In addition, happy people are more optimistic, kind, have more energy and are less likely to have heart problems. As Dr. Karina Davidson, of the Columbia University Medical Center put it, “If you are not a naturally happy person, try acting like one.” Doing things like cooking a meal for someone who is sick or grieving, slowing down in traffic to allow someone can cut in front of you, running an errand for someone, or doing something to brighten another person’s day can cause these same good things to happen in your life.
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The Quickest Way to a Stagnant Life: Stop Trying New Things – By Ross Reck
Many of us, if left to our druthers, would prefer to live our lives within the friendly confines of our “comfort zone.” And why not? That’s where life is easy, familiar, and totally risk free. Many people view their comfort zone as a sanctuary that protects them from all the dangers lurking out there in the in the world. The truth, however, is that our comfort zone is more like a prison than a sanctuary. And the longer we live within it, the more fearful we become of what’s on the outside—we stop trying new things, the size of our dreams begins to shrink, and life becomes stagnant and unfulfilling. When you think about it, that’s a hefty price to pay for a thimble full of security. So, do yourself a favor and break out of that self-imposed prison. Get out there and try some new things—make some new friends, go to some new places, try some new recipes, read books from a different genre, or take that class you always wanted to take. This will cause you to learn and grow while adding a dimension of fun and excitement to your life. It will also improve your level of confidence, broaden your perspective, and give you a lot more to talk about in your conversations with others.
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Excellent Advice for Those Who Want to Fail at Life
A friend of mine posted an Instagram photo on Facebook which contained the following message:
3 Ways to Fail at Everything in Life
- Blame all your problems on others.
- Complain about everything.
- Do not be grateful.
People who live by the above three principles spend most of their time making themselves and everyone around them miserable. These are the kind of people no one wants to be around because the experience is anything but pleasant. As a result, they travel through life pretty much alone. No one is there to help them along the way, pick them up when they’re down or offer encouragement when they need it. Their life is a lonely, dark, and pathetic journey with little or no love, fun or excitement. There really is no reason to live like this. If you’ve fallen into this kind of behavior pattern and want to turn the situation around, all you have to do is take ownership of your problems and do something about them, stop complaining and be thankful for the things you have. Remember the story of Scrooge in the movie A Christmas Carol. He had spent most of his life living the “3 Ways to Fail at Everything in Life.” He was always grumpy, and people were afraid of him, but when he turned things around, everyone embraced him, a smile returned to his face and life for him became good again.
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- RossReck.com