Same-Sex Weddings – Differing Opinions

Joe Connolly and Terry Pochert

Flashback to October 25, 2022, from the Ahwatukee Foothills News

Original article by By Jeff Grant and Eric Mungenast – Daily News-Sun and Tribune (read the entire article as a PDF)

Joe Connolly and Terry Pochert
Joe Connolly and Terry Pochert

….. Saying no to a couple has consequences beyond forcing them to look for another church. It can cause conflict within a couple who wants to be part of a faith community or house of worship. It may ultimately may result in them leaving, noted Terry Pochert, who married his husband, Joe Connolly, in California in 2008.

“When a church says ‘we don’t want you here,’ what you’re finding is mothers, fathers, sisters and brothers are no longer attending that church. In churches that are affirming (of same-sex couples), not just gay people are being welcomed but extended families are starting to come back to church,” Pochert said.

Pochert and Connelly filed suit, Connolly v. Roche, to have their out-of-state wedding recognized by Arizona. Their case, along with Majors v. Jeanes, led to U.S. District Court judge John Sedwick to rule against the state’s ban in October. The defendants in the Connolly case filed an appeal to the United States Court of Appeals for the Ninth Circuit in November 2014. …..